携手人生

    “Dear thoughts are in my mind and my soul it soars enchanted, As I hear the sweet lark sing in the clear air of the day│脑海充满遐想，灵魂在翱翔，宛如聆听云雀在碧空吟唱……”《澄空云雀》（Lark in the Clear Air）百听不厌，凯特在她的第十一部电影作品《长路将近│Iris》中重新诠释了这首隽永的老歌。

    这部同样隽永的传记片讲述了英国著名哲学家兼小说家爱丽丝·梅铎（Iris Murdoch）与夫婿约翰·贝利长达40年的深挚爱情故事。凯特和英国最伟大的女演员之一的朱迪·丹琦（Judi Dench）分别在片中饰演这位被誉为“英国最聪明的女人”的青年和老年时代，青年爱丽丝清唱《澄空云雀》的那一段被安排在影片的结尾部分，导演希望观众们记住她创作力丰沛和热爱生活的样子。同样是清唱，但歌声比五年前的《理智与情感》里多了历练和厚重感，还有当初只能在艾玛·汤普森身上看到的大将之风。

由真人真事改编。
艾利斯和约翰的简历都可查得。
是另一个携手人生版本。
如果你不觉得闷，
那么这个每次摔倒在地都大笑的女子其实很可爱。
而与子偕老也真的很温情。

「Education doesn't make you happy. And what is freedom? We don't become happy just because we are free, if we are. Or because we have been educated, if we have. But because education may be the means by which we realize we are happy. It opens our eyes, our ears. Tells us where delights are lurking. Convinces us that there is only one freedom of any importance whatsoever: that of the mind. And give us the assurance, the confidence, to walk the path our mind, our educated mind, offers.」


「Yes, of course, there's something fishy about describing people's feelings. Try hard to be accurate, but as soon as you start to define such and such a feeling, language lets you down. It's really a machine for making falsehoods. When we really speak the truth, words are insufficient. Almost everything, except thing like "pass the gravy," is a lie of a sort.」


「People, of course, are very secretive... and, for many reasons, want to appear what... what we call ordinary. Everybody has thoughts they want to conceal, perhaps even quite simple aspects of their lives. People have obsessions and fears and passions which they don't admit to. I think any character is interesting and has extremes. It's the novelist's privilege to see how odd everyone is.」


「What about friends in your other world?
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You know more about me than anyone on earth. You are my world.」


「Human beings love each other... in sex, in friendship and when they're in love. And they cherish other beings, humans, animals, plants, even stones.」


「We need to believe in something divine without the need for God, something we might call love or goodness. As the Psalm says, "Whither shall I go from thy spirit? Whither shall I flee from thy presence? If I ascend unto heaven, thou art there. If I make m bed in hell, behold, thou art there. If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, even there shall thy hand lead me and thy right hand shall hold me."」

没看到开头,也没看完结尾.
然而这部电影却给人影响深刻,很值得一看.演员的表演十分精湛而味道十足;情节是温馨暖人的.在这样秋季看来让人心生暖流,感到世间真爱,即便秋天是萧瑟枯萎,而带着温暖的心意和力量,前方到来的还是繁花似锦的春天啊!
人生总是要带着美好的爱和希望前行.

      平静的看完了这部淡淡的英国电影，内心却变得不再平静。
   人的衰老真是这世间上最最可怕的杀手，它杀死了一切美好的回忆。想起了奶奶和爷爷，也想到了我们，不知我们老了谁会被这可怕的病选中。它虽不痛也不痒，但却在慢慢蚕食你的记忆和心灵。清醒的那一个人更不幸，一个人自此将会跌入孤独和痛苦的万丈深渊。
   看完电影，有个问题一直在脑海里缠绕：如果另一半换上了阿茲海默症，剩下的这个人会像约翰贝利做得这般好吗？细想了一下，感觉他肯定的没问题的，而自己就……看着相伴一生的爱人把你当做陌生人，昔日一切美好的回忆都被丢掉，虽然他没有逝去，但却如同一具“可爱的尸体”……
   所以……如果真的逃不掉……真让它找上我吧！我没有勇气去做孤独的、痛苦的、醒着的那一个。